Wednesday, May 5, 2021

Their father had died of AIDS, contracted from one of the multiple prostitutes he wastes his meagre earnings on in the dark streets of the city.
The mother, had also died of AIDS, contracted from no other than her loving husband.

This is not an unusual occurrence. The village of Pisti has lost several people like this in recent months. Men working in the cities bring home HIV to wives who are in the village, patiently and happily welcoming their husbands home from the city on their monthly brief visits.  Many children have been orphaned. Sadly, the elders of Pisti community had no understanding of this scourge and had ostracized these children from the rest of the community, refusing them the rights to be human on their own terms.

Alone and Hungry, Lungu goes off to the city to eke out a living in order to take care of his siblings, Adari and Tobe. He told them he would be back every week and will bring money. Apparently, he forgot that it is the big city we are talking about. He didn’t realise the city has no soul. He arrived in a big city, knowing no one, and within days, his money ran out. He could not find a job. No one wanted him. He had no skills, and had barely gone to school. He is angry and frustrated. A gang found him, gave him food and shelter, gave him hope. It was a fait accompli. He joined them. On their first operation, he was the only one caught by the police. He ends up in jail, awaiting trial.

Adari waited for her brother’s message for weeks. None came. She asks everyone coming back from the city if they had seen her brother. “The city is a jungle”, they replied her. They run out of food. She had no money, and her credit standing at the local store had been revoked. The store owner, a pot-bellied middle aged man with 4 wives, told her she either pays up with cash or she can do what the other young girls in the village does, and for a girl as pretty as Adari is, he would wipe her slate clean.  She felt she could do neither, so she left.

Then Tobe took ill. She could not get medicine for him. She was desperate. Lungu is nowhere to be found. No one in the village would help her. The village head didn’t want to see her. Tobe is in pain. She went to the dispensary where the nurse comes to once in a month. She is in luck; the nurse was there. She got some medications for Tobe, but he has to eat before taking them.

She wondered if she can appeal to the store owner’s sense of humanity. She headed off to his store. The lusting look on his face when she entered told her already that no appeal will work with this one. She contemplated walking out on him. Tobe will be waiting for her to perform a miracle. How will she go home to a hungry and sick Tobe? With a sinking feeling, she knew what she had to do. It was getting late, but there were still many people in the store She waited by a corner till the last paying customer left. Hastily, the shop owner came over to the door, shut it tight, signalling business is finished for the day, except for his prize that is waiting to be claimed. He laughed like a hyena as he came over to hold her. She felt trapped.

Afterwards, armed with supplies for about a week, she hurried home. It was dark now, but as she nears her parents’ home, it appeared as if the sun was just beginning to rise around there. Then she heard shouting. “What is going on?”, she thought. It was a fire. A house was burning. She came round the bend to her house and found people standing outside, crying helplessly. It is her house. The fire was fierce.
“Where is Tobe? I left him sleeping”, she cried out.
Over the noise of the onlookers and the licking sound of the fire, she shouted, “Tobe, Tobeee”. No one answered. No one had seen Tobe.
“God, let this not happen, please”. “Tobe cannot be inside this fire”
Dropping the supplies that she had recently lost her virginity for, she made a dash for the door of the burning house. Powerful hands gripped her. “You cannot go in there, child. It is too dangerous”.
“Let me go, let me go please. My brother might still be in there”
“No one can be in that fire. He probably has run away when it started”, people affirmed by way of encouragement.
She continued to wail, shouting her brother’s name.
The fire truck from the district office finally made its way to the scene of the fire. It was almost burnt out by then, so in about 10minutes, they were able to put it out. The building was charred and burnt out. Fire officers went into the building to look around. The whole assembly waited with bated breath. After what seemed like an eternity, one man came out, carrying something that looked like a log.
As he came out into the open, Adari saw the form, and a scream escaped from her. The rest of the community joined the crying. It was not a log. Tobe was sleeping in the house when the fire started!

Monday, July 13, 2020

The Usurpers, The Victims and The Victimised – The Rationalisation of Criminality


This article was extracted from my book, "Abduction Chronicles". To buy the book, go to https://bit.ly/2WhPVlS to order

 

I read somewhere that no human being will do anything and not have a reason for his or her actions. What we term as unreasonable or unjustifiable does not look as such in the eyes of the perpetrator. Even the madman has a reason for what he says and does. The armed robber is justified by his own logic of the appropriateness or at least the necessity of his crimes. The prostitute will give you reasons why she had to resort to selling her body. Everyone who does anything will give you a perfectly logical answer, or what they think is a perfectly coherent explanation, for what they have done or are doing.

However, society is upheld by norms and rules and when people act outside of that rule, then such acts become an exception. Unfortunately, when there are many people acting out the exception, it is no longer called an exception, rather it becomes the norm.

As I had said earlier, the people who commit crime have reasons for their actions, and they can give a logical explanation why that was either the best or the only course of action at that time. During my period of captivity, I had the chance of meditating on this phenomenon, and below is my submission.

There are broadly three categories of people in Nigeria today as I see it. I have classified them into the usurpers, the victims, and the victimised. The usurpers are the rulers, the politicians, the people in power, the bosses of establishments, the bourgeoisie; the blue blood etc. Then there are the victims. The first class of people in this group of victims are those people who feel that they should have been amongst the usurpers, so when they find themselves outside of the corridors of power, they start to claim that they are victims. The second class of people in the victims’ category comprise of those who feel entitled to getting more than everyone else because of the circumstances of and/or the geography of their birth. They are either the son of the soil, or the minorities, or the least of any grouping of people.

Then we have the category of people I refer to as the victimised. This class includes pretty much the rest of us who are at the receiving end of the misrule and the usurpation of the usurper group. The victimised are any class of people, rich or poor, educated or not, who have had to suffer the consequences of the actions and the arguments of the first two groups.

I agree that this is in a sense a very broad categorisation, but it mostly works for the purpose of this discourse. I grew up in a generation that just missed out on everything. We missed out on free school meals, scholarships, free education, free this and free that. In essence, we missed out on the best years of Nigeria. We missed out on a time when there was hardly any power cut; when graduates come out of school with a job, a car and a house waiting for them; when all you needed for a free or subsidised plane ticket is your NYSC or even university ID card; a time when the railways were working; when the industries were working; when there was a hope and a future for the country. Our parents and uncles will tell us, with smacking lips, how nice those days were. They were catered for in the University by the system: they didn’t pay fees; they didn’t wash their clothes; they were never in a room with 23 others students (in a room designed for four). They had all the goodies of Nigeria and left nothing; so when we came, they told us we were late.

The politicians across all the republics we have had in this country are the usurpers, followed by the military. The politicians inherited a good country at independence, but with their greed and avarice, they destroyed it. They plundered the economy of the nation, lived large; destroyed our colonial legacies, changed names of streets and institutions from their colonial names to their own gaudy names. They mismanaged the economy, fought themselves, polarised the country, and sowed seeds of discord amongst people who had lived together in peace for decades before then. With all these going on, the soldiers who were looking on with envy from their barracks’ windows could no longer contain their greed. They overthrew the politicians and started enjoying these goodies for themselves. Power play, nepotism, ethnic and religious sentiments came in, and after a fratricidal civil war that raged on for three and half years, we no longer had a country. We have been staggering from one form of governance to another since then, from military rule to democracy, back to the military and now again in a democracy. We were at first looking for the magic wand that will fix the country, and when we got tired of looking for that magic wand, we started to look for a saviour; someone to take the pains away and in one moment, restore Nigeria back to its old glory.

While all these were going on, our institutions got debased; our infrastructure became first epileptic, then archaic, then it collapsed. Our universities went from being ivory towers to houses of ignominies. Students were spending more time at home than in school. Their teachers and lecturers fought a war they could never win, with the world’s most uneducated leaders – the soldiers who were ruling us first from the nuzzle of their legal guns – and then from the nuzzles of their illegal guns which were now wielded by the garrisons of untrained criminals they had unwittingly raised through the numerous backward and disruptive policies enacted during their reign of insensitivity.

Between 1983 and 1999, the rape of Nigeria which had started from about 1963 became entrenched and was taken to the next level. Politicians of the second republic lived large, with one of them famously bottling an eponymous champagne brand (a champagne that bore his own name as its label!). With oil money awash, they didn’t have any problems with money. Midway through the life of that republic, the petrodollar economy ran into troubles, but the politicians could not be bothered. They continued building houses, marrying wives, ferrying entire families abroad to live and school. They started to borrow money to fund these opulent lifestyles, and surely in no time, we were up to our necks in debts to the London club, the Paris club, and to all kinds of clubs. The politicians had blown away our collective wealth and exchanged our prosperity for a time of extreme hardship.

With the economy in shambles, the military returned again in 1983 with a now familiar Muhamadu Buhari being the hatchet man who took over power back then. His reign was short-lived, and when he was bloodlessly removed, just about halfway past his second year in power, by the evil genius, Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida (IBB), Nigerians were ecstatic. As usual, Nigerians apparently believed that life during the civilian administrations was more preferred by most Nigerians than the regimental life imposed by the Buhari/Idiagbon junta. This was to become the typical reaction to all future changes of government.

Their joy was to be short-lived as things only got worse during the subsequent 14 years of 3 successive military regimes starting from IBB to Abacha and terminating with Gen Abdusalam Abubakar who handed over power to politicians (this time a mix of very rich and bored retired generals and their old-time political accomplices). Nigeria was dying! General Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida said in a perplexed tone during one of the many press interviews he gave that he does not understand why the economy of Nigeria had not yet collapsed. This was around 1991 or 1992. They had stolen money and gotten tired of stealing, yet Nigeria, wounded but refusing to die, staggered on.

The academia and the proletariat in general at first stood aside, trying to be the voice of reason and a model of professionalism amidst a free for all scramble for the wealth of our motherland that was being perpetrated by the military and their political appointees. After a while, with Structural Adjustment Programme impoverishing proud professionals and technocrats, and several strikes and industrial actions that yielded nothing apart from the massive brain drain of our academic and professional communities (with the rest turning to farming if they didn’t want to travel out), these groups too have had it. Having been pushed to the wall, they promptly abandoned all of their honest gaits and joined the scramble.

One could say that they were even worse than their progenitors in crime. One Vice-Chancellor in one of the then new generation universities in the south-west was quoted as threatening that his colleagues in the university senate cannot remove him, that he was ready for them with the most potent charms available!

To say that Nigeria had and still has potential is an understatement. There are yet untapped natural resources that if another country had just a tiny part of, they would be sorted for life. Yet we have them in abundance; gold, platinum, bitumen, coal, tin, bauxite, name it. Added to this is a seemingly unending arable land suitable for all types of crops and for all kinds of seasons. We have a population that can sustain itself eating and selling what it produces. Yet, with all these advantages, Nigeria is like a typical black man dressed as a king but sharing a bed with poverty; going around the world with a begging bowl, when wealth practically grows at his backyard. By the way, the illustrious Nigerian Poet, Dike Chukwumerije, first used these lines, but I am sure he won’t mind me reusing them here.

Decades of rot within the system dominated by these usurpers have naturally given rise to a parallel group of people who I call the agitators. They are the people who felt unfairly treated, and they either made their unhappiness felt by shouting the loudest or by rising up in arms against the nation. Trusting our group of usurpers, they would never want their feathers rustled, so every time a new group of agitators rise up, they will block their mouth with some of the wealth. Once the wealth gets into the hand of the leaders of those agitations, the agitation dies off. Then the cycle starts all over again.

There is, however, another set of agitators who will not shout. They just become a law unto themselves, starting a campaign of robbing Peter and Paul to pay themselves. An example can be a man who did not go to school, or who went to school at the instance of communal efforts, graduates without any employment for several years, and as a result, he begins a victim’s campaign. People in the victim category who become deviant in their behaviour rationalise the reasons for their criminality or aberrant behaviours. They justify their own illegalities by blaming the system, the government, everything and everyone else but themselves for the choices they have made. They forget that the system that was unfair to them, and the leaders that trampled on their privileges did not do it to them alone.

Other people suffered the same fate but decided to not fight back with criminality and illegality, choosing instead to rise up above the oppression to create something meaningful for themselves from the crumbs scattered around by the usurpers. This latter group continually try to turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones; always seeing a silver lining in every cloud; they are the people I refer to as the victimised.

The victimised manage to survive in every situation by sheer willpower and adaptability. They escape the blackouts by generating their own electricity; they survive the lack of potable water supply by digging their own wells or boreholes if they can afford it, or by buying water from the ubiquitous Hausa water bearers called ‘abokis’ scattered around most urban neighbourhoods. The victimised survived the decay in government schools by paying through their noses for a private school education for their children, sometimes sending them abroad to the west, or to neighbouring Ghana for university education.

If they cannot afford overseas education, they either return them back to the rot of the public universities or try to muscle additional funds to get into the several private universities that now dot the Nigerian educational landscape.

The victimised survived the lack of medical care by making do with private hospitals owned by the same administrators of the public health institutions that have been turned into slaughter slabs or mere prescription rooms. They survive all kinds of debasement by their leaders, rising up each time like the Phoenix, stronger every time.

The victimised are the trampling ground for the people in the usurpers and the victims categories. The usurpers take money belonging to the victimised by pen robbery; the victims take it by armed robbery and other vices. The victimised are at the mercy of the law, at the mercy of their governors and their political office holders. They are at the mercy of their union leaders who use them as pawns in the power game, using them to get into the usurpers group before abandoning them and their ideologies; at the mercy of the ‘agberos’, the touts in the bus parks; at the mercy of the tax man; and at the mercy of the criminals – the men of the underworld who attack them in their homes and on the road day and night!

The usurpers have protections against the ‘victims’, but the victimised have no protection against anything or anybody. Working class people are impoverished every day by the people who rule them. They cart away their wealth and leave crumbs for them. When the common wealth of the country began to diminish, the rulers started raising IGR (internally generated revenue) campaigns to further deprive the working class of their already depleted, hard earned money. They tax their salaries, their water, their food, their houses, everything! They promise them that their taxes will work for them, but it never does. It only works for those who made the hollow promises to them in the first place.

Then, disappointed and bruised, the victimised withdraw into their little flats and duplexes; homes owned by the usurpers who also continue to increase their rents, taking it beyond the reach of what the man earning a minimum wage can ever afford. The victimised goes off to live at the edge of the cities, in mosquito invested shacks, like those found in the Marokos, the Makokos, the Ajegunles, and their likes dotted all around the cities of Nigeria. Unfortunately, no sooner do they get there and settle before they are displaced again from these new abodes. As new playing ground for the usurpers is needed from time to time, they take the land of the defenceless people legally acquiring it most of the time citing the decree 6 of 1978, infamously called the land use act.

As at the time of our independence as a nation, the victimised could be found mostly in the lower class and the middle class of the society. Shortly afterwards, just as the economic noose started to tighten around our necks, there was a further separation of the middle class into upper-middle class and the lower-middle class categories. The upper-middle class are the more highly paid civil servants; the proletariat that keeps the wheels turning, doing the bidding of their paymasters. They wear shinning suits, drive shinning cars, live in shining houses, all of these things acquired by debt. They are not poor, but they are also not rich. They are the bank workers, the oil company workers, the telecoms company executives, the manufacturing company executives, the stockbrokers, etc.

By and large, people in this class have now become a target for everyone else. When the victims are looking for targets, they dare not go after the usurpers, because the usurpers have used money to buy protection; most of them have also used the state’s apparatus to guarantee their invincibility. What does the victim do? He goes after the victimised middle-class oil worker or the bank executive. He goes after them to get his own ‘share’ of the loot not knowing most of the victimised have worked really hard to get their own bread.

Initially, we didn’t have the victims group, as there were only the usurpers and the victimised. But when anyone from the group of the victimised take the negative and illegal path to seek redress, he joins the victims group. The graduate armed robber was amongst the victimised until he took up the gun. The hardworking government officer was part of the victimised until he began pen robbery. The Union official was in the victimised category until he forged an alliance with the ruling class and started to ride a SUV and live well above his legal means. Essentially, he has used the misery of his colleagues as a bargaining chip with the usurpers. Unknowingly, having joined the so-called ‘privileged’ group, he has also turned into a target for the armed robbers looking for people to harass daily.

When a nation is in the grip of poverty and unemployment, the lines between evil and good; between legality and illegality; and between what is moral and immoral becomes very blurry. People are at their wits’ end; they are at their tipping point, and they can either tip to one side or the other. No one can and should justify illegality. But those who become deviant to the system often look at the ruling class and how they have usurped their authority and their influence to amass wealth at every other person’s expense. They reckon that if the ruling class can break the rules, then they, the poor also reserves the right to do the same.

Therefore, an unending cycle of misery continues for the victimised. The usurpers take what should be for the victimised, and the victims take whatever he has left, sometimes including his dignity, his hope and sadly even his life. When he or his abused children gets tired of what is being served them, they also join the victims, and start to demand a remedy for themselves in the land.

In all of these, I have found something fascinating. Even though more people are leaving the victimised group either to death or to ‘promotion’ into the ranks of the victims, ultimately, the number of people in the victimised group continues to increase. Why is this so? More people are impoverished daily, faster than those who are able to climb out of the group, and that is what continues to swell the number.

The people who kidnapped me were victimised by the government, the supreme usurpers, and by their own leaders, who are accomplices to the government. Either they were directly victimised when they didn’t have parents who could afford to send them to school, or they were indirectly victimised when the government took their oil-bearing lands and gave them abject poverty, almost total neglect, the dearth of social amenities, and an environmental wasteland of epic proportion in return. They became victimised when their own leaders took their derivation money and used it to plant big, brazen mansions in Abuja, Lagos, London, New York, Atlanta, Dubai, Johannesburg, etc.

Either way, they were robbed; robbed of their childhood dreams and aspirations. They were robbed of their prime which was mostly spent working as labourers to the deflowerers of their land. Until one day, they decided they will stop being victimised and will demand their own rights, or obtain their entitlements by hook or crook. They could not fight the usurpers, but it was not for lack of trying. The foot soldiers quickly found out that we are all living on an ‘animal farm’. Their leaders were ultimately brought into the wealthy circles of the usurpers, and they abandoned the struggle. They may have reckoned that it was far more pleasurable to live in an air-conditioned mansion in Maitama than to live a crude existence in the Niger Delta creeks.

Since fighting the government that owes them so much but pays them so little had become known as criminality, they abandoned that course and turned against people in the group of the victimised, where they themselves have sojourned for so long. They blindly began to see in the oil worker, the bank worker or the company executive who rides an official car and lives in an official mansion a justifiable target for their anger. They assumed everyone who drives a new car or lives in a big house must have stolen their wealth!

So they took me because they could not kidnap the governor or his wife, or his kids, or his officials. They abducted me because they could not get to Aso Rock; because I was always a sitting duck, a beacon of light that gave them hope before, but which they now prefer to see as their quick ticket out of poverty!

On my first full day in captivity, I had some time to speak with the guys, and they mostly complained about the system, and how things are tough for them. They complained about the inequality in the land and the dearth of opportunities for them through which they can also have a future. They complained of what a wasteland their ancestral homes have become, and what a hopeless lot the youths have now been turned into with the full participation of the politicians and sometimes also through their own cooperation. They talk of mates killed in endless fights over the proceeds of bunkering; over attempts at rigging elections for their debased and deluded leaders; over political and communal clashes that directly determine who rules their region, and – essentially who gains control of their wealth. They say they have been dealt a harsh hand by fate, but now they want to change it. Sadly, they have chosen to change it the only way they have come to know how which is through violence.

I told them that we are both in the victimised group. I am not a bourgeoisie; I am a proletariat. Like them, I have been disadvantaged by the same people who have also disadvantaged them. I am not enjoying anything from the government, the same government that has impoverished them. The only thing I had that those who have taken to the negative path to seek redress didn’t have is God, the opportunities He brought my way, and a conviction for doing good to all people; the conviction to rise above whatever hand was dealt me, by fate or by my government.

The WAEC guy actually told me that he was doing this job of kidnapping because he has no other way. He never knew his parents, and as far back as he remembers he has always been on the street. At the end of the day, it was a question of survival. He had to survive, and he reckoned that if there is no legal way to survival, then he will make his own way anyhow. I perceive that they have no issues with me, I was just a meal ticket. They basically saw me as someone who will deliver the cash they need to advance on the ladder of life.

He told me that he still wants to go to school, and I think he said he wanted to be a lawyer or something. It is funny though that even though he wants to be a lawyer, yet he did not stop to consider the legality or morality of the choices he is making towards the achievement of the goal he has set. He doesn’t see it as a question of morality, instead he sees it as a question of survival.

I told them that we are both in the victimised group, but not being able to get to the usurpers, they have resorted to attacking those of us who are trying to keep the community going. I told them that they are angry at the wrong set of people and that their actions are going to put them in the exact same position that they found me, a well to do man in the land of poverty. Eventually, we will all become targets, victimised by those who are supposed to lead us and attacked by those who have had the same misfortune like we have, bearing the heavy yoke of an irresponsible leadership. I can only hope they understand all the things I told them! 

 

 

 

Folarin Philip Banigbe


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Saturday, February 29, 2020

A Story (Fiction)- The Scourge

Their father had died of AIDS, contracted from one of the multiple prostitutes he wastes his meagre earnings on in the dark streets of the city.
The mother, had also died of AIDS, contracted from no other than her loving husband.

This is not an unusual occurrence. The village of Pisti has lost several people like this in recent months. Men working in the cities bring home HIV to wives who are in the village, patiently and happily welcoming their husbands home from the city on their monthly brief visits.  Many children have been orphaned. Sadly, the elders of Pisti community had no understanding of this scourge and had ostracized these children from the rest of the community, refusing them the rights to be human on their own terms.

Alone and Hungry, Lungu goes off to the city to eke out a living in order to take care of his siblings, Adari and Tobe. He told them he would be back every week and will bring money. Apparently, he forgot that it is the big city we are talking about. He didn’t realise the city has no soul. He arrived in a big city, knowing no one, and within days, his money ran out. He could not find a job. No one wanted him. He had no skills, and had barely gone to school. He is angry and frustrated. A gang found him, gave him food and shelter, gave him hope. It was a fait accompli. He joined them. On their first operation, he was the only one caught by the police. He ends up in jail, awaiting trial.

Adari waited for her brother’s message for weeks. None came. She asks everyone coming back from the city if they had seen her brother. “The city is a jungle”, they replied her. They run out of food. She had no money, and her credit standing at the local store had been revoked. The store owner, a pot-bellied middle aged man with 4 wives, told her she either pays up with cash or she can do what the other young girls in the village does, and for a girl as pretty as Adari is, he would wipe her slate clean.  She felt she could do neither, so she left.

Then Tobe took ill. She could not get medicine for him. She was desperate. Lungu is nowhere to be found. No one in the village would help her. The village head didn’t want to see her. Tobe is in pain. She went to the dispensary where the nurse comes to once in a month. She is in luck; the nurse was there. She got some medications for Tobe, but he has to eat before taking them.

She wondered if she can appeal to the store owner’s sense of humanity. She headed off to his store. The lusting look on his face when she entered told her already that no appeal will work with this one. She contemplated walking out on him. Tobe will be waiting for her to perform a miracle. How will she go home to a hungry and sick Tobe? With a sinking feeling, she knew what she had to do. It was getting late, but there were still many people in the store She waited by a corner till the last paying customer left. Hastily, the shop owner came over to the door, shut it tight, signalling business is finished for the day, except for his prize that is waiting to be claimed. He laughed like a hyena as he came over to hold her. She felt trapped.

Afterwards, armed with supplies for about a week, she hurried home. It was dark now, but as she nears her parents’ home, it appeared as if the sun was just beginning to rise around there. Then she heard shouting. “What is going on?”, she thought. It was a fire. A house was burning. She came round the bend to her house and found people standing outside, crying helplessly. It is her house. The fire was fierce.
“Where is Tobe? I left him sleeping”, she cried out.
Over the noise of the onlookers and the licking sound of the fire, she shouted, “Tobe, Tobeee”. No one answered. No one had seen Tobe.
“God, let this not happen, please”. “Tobe cannot be inside this fire”
Dropping the supplies that she had recently lost her virginity for, she made a dash for the door of the burning house. Powerful hands gripped her. “You cannot go in there, child. It is too dangerous”.
“Let me go, let me go please. My brother might still be in there”
“No one can be in that fire. He probably has run away when it started”, people affirmed by way of encouragement.
She continued to wail, shouting her brother’s name.
The fire truck from the district office finally made its way to the scene of the fire. It was almost burnt out by then, so in about 10 minutes, they were able to put it out. The building was charred and burnt out. Fire officers went into the building to look around. The whole assembly waited with bated breath. After what seemed like an eternity, one man came out, carrying something that looked like a log.
As he came out into the open, Adari saw the form, and a scream escaped from her. The rest of the community joined the crying. It was not a log. Tobe was sleeping in the house when the fire started!

Saturday, December 7, 2019

We all need Nigeria’s Forgiveness



I grew up in the 70s and the 80s. These were very good years by my reckoning; very good indeed, I tell you. My father tells me his time was good too, and he bemoans my time as not so good.  I have younger associates who grew up in the 90s, and they also say the same thing about how good their time was also even though I think that what they called good about the Nigeria of their time is a time when Nigeria was like a fast ripening plantain, soon to go bad.  It’s surprising though that almost everyone agrees that Nigeria was good in their own days. It was never at its best, but it was pretty good.

Unfortunately, I don’t think that the young people living in today’s Nigeria can say the country is good. I don’t even think that anyone can say Nigeria is good anymore, young or old. Everywhere you go, ‘country is tough’ is what you consistently hear; a tough place to live, to work, or even to raise children.  Even those who run the country agrees to the general sentiment that things have long stopped being at ease with the country.  It is not certain, however, if they are incapable of making changes, if they are disinterested in making those changes or if they are simply overwhelmed.

We are spiralling out of control, and no one seems to know what to do, or want to do what needs to be done. Everyone is complaining; every is offering solutions but no one is actually working these solutions, or any solution at that. We seem to think the job has to be done by someone else. We think someone else has to step in to clear the mess.

This is where I disagree. We are all part of the problem. We all created the mess in our own little or big way. Tell yourself you are not part of the problem, and you lie. I am part of the problem. We let Nigeria down either with our active participation in its ruin, or by our passive complacence as we watched things go awry. We have all let Nigeria down, and we all need to beg for her forgiveness and start to make restitutions.

Drive around neighbourhoods, and you will see garrisons for buildings, with very tall fences completely covering the houses within. I didn’t grow up that way. Most of us didn’t either. Our houses had no fences. Where there were, they were either low concrete fences or made with shrubs.

As a young man, I would drive from Port Harcourt to Ilorin or from Lagos to Kaduna, and the only thing I would worry about is if I will get there with 2 full tanks of petrol instead of one. Nothing else worried me; no armed robbers, no irate custom officers, no desperate police officers looking for anything to hang on you to make you cough out money, no kidnappers. Now, all these worries paralyse us or force us to take more expensive but secure alternatives.

I remember walking with my friends to and from school as a boy. You will see kids from all sides of the wealth divide all over the streets, walking home after school, regardless of their parent’s status in the society. Today, many kids still walk home from school, but I am sure you know what sort of parents those kids have. Whose rich child will you find walking him or busing it home?

I remember also that way back, almost everyone had something to do; factory workers, dock workers, menial labourers etc. There were not many layabouts. Today, there is an army of employed youth who are almost becoming a major threat to those of us who have some form of employment; idle and redundant people milling around. At stop lights all over the nation, you will be amazed at the number of people selling stuff on our highways, and if you add the number just begging for alms, you will just be flabbergasted! This is a time bomb waiting to explode!

As I said earlier, we all need to be part of the solution. Running away is selling-out, even though it is an attraction that is sometimes too powerful to ignore. If where you are running to didn’t solve their own problems, you will not have them to run to in the first place. Also, doing nothing but complain has not helped us solve the problems, rather, it has instead created a lot more. So we need to stop complaining and start to do something. Do something, no matter how little. Make a small change here and there; begin to influence your immediate cycle.

In reality, we don’t need a massive change to make things work in this country. What we need to do is to have millions of little changes being made by millions of citizens one at a time. Start by doing your jobs with integrity and honesty; observe known rules; don’t cut corners; think Nigeria, not self, clan or tribe; live right, and correct wrong doings starting with yours and then other people’s. Stand up for the truth. More importantly, think about legacies; both personal and national. What would you like to leave behind that will live after you, aside ill-gotten monumental wealth or monstrosities called buildings? What kind of country would you like to bequeath to your children? Think about your business practices also; would you be proud to handover these practices to your children in the future when they are ready to take over the control of your business? If the Nigeria of today worries you, the time to start changing things is now. Tomorrow may be too late!



Monday, August 6, 2018

Do you even look at their faces?


I am at the stop lights. As soon as my car came to a stop, a mob swarmed over my car and the cars around me. I looked around, and I could see all kinds of representation of the citizenry of Nigeria plying their trades briskly while keeping their eyes on the “soon to be green” lights. Usually, to prevent unwanted attention, I would just either look straight ahead or busy myself with my phone where it is safe to do so, but today, I ventured to look at them one after the other while I also wait for the light to turn green. Different strokes; I was waiting for the lights to quickly turn green so I can drive off, and they are silently begging the lights to stay on red for a few more seconds, to see if they can either quickly conclude a sale and not have to sprint after their customers while trying to get paid for what they have sold.

I kept looking around. I saw a woman on a wheel chair, holding a baby of about a year, being pushed by a boy of about 11 and in time, because I was looking at them, they came by to beg for alms. I waved her on. She looked into my eyes, and into my car, and at my wife and children at the back, and she nodded, then moved on.

I looked at her in the side mirror as she tried her luck with the vehicle behind me. Something caught my attention there; I could  see the occupants of the vehicle busy eating something, not sure what exactly. They didn’t even bother to look at the party around them, they just stared straight on and continue eating whatever it was they were eating.

I turned my attention to the others around me all either trying to sell something or beg for alms. A boy selling chewing gum and sweets; another one selling CDs, yet another one selling date seeds. I saw young boys and girls plying all sorts of items for trade. I saw some of them tired and weary, under the hot sun, and I could imagine that they probably have not made any money all day. I started to think about them; how will they eat tonight? Where do they sleep? How do they survive? Who are their parents and where are they?

My stop light was still red; so I continued to look, and wonder. I realise that a lot of the women and girls begging for alms were from a nearby IDP camp. Their own homes had been destroyed, either by Boko Haram fighters, or herdsmen, or via communal clashes or natural disasters. They are now in the capital city, herded into a camp, and with no one to provide for them, they all have fend for themselves. Most of them probably have lost husbands and/or fathers. Some of them will never see their homes again, others may never see their parents again. Most of them will probably never go to school again, or learn the trade they were learning, or farm the farmlands they were farming before evil uprooted them from their lands.

Eventually, the light turned green, but the deed was done. Something in me had been stirred up. Hitherto, I found that I had never looked at the faces I see at stop signs eking out a living; or at bus stops wearily waiting for buses that will never come; or along dirty backwater streets in the slums around me where the open veranda is the sitting room for everyone until it is time for them to pile into the small room that will serve as the bedroom for maybe up to 12 people!

I realised that I really don’t see them. Not that I don’t see them; but I really don’t look at them; I don’t look into their eyes; I don’t try to unravel them; I don’t try to know where they are coming from, or what pains they are going through, or what hope or hopelessness they carry! I just look past them or look through them! They are the people of the streets. The silent, faceless, nameless, sometimes hopefully hopeless people that form more than 85% of our population.

Not all of these people are on the streets, a lot of them are around us in our homes. The gateman with 5 kids on 20k a month; the housemaid who is only a little older than our own first child; the gardener where we have one; the driver, the washman, and a host of people that service us, the well to dos or pretenders. They come into our home, carrying their troubles; their sick parents; their unpaid house rents; their damaged psyche; their fading hopes. Yet, we expect them to serve us, we expect them to behave, and we expect them no to be affected by the affluence we display.

From that day at the stop lights, I decided I will start to really look at them. So I started, and what I found shocked me. Where I can, I also started to talk to them more, and what they told me amazed me. Some of these people have gone through the most challenging life you can imagine. They live under the poverty line; they live a life that you would not imagine people still live. Their faces are usually a mask that hides the real person, but once you begin to go behind the veil, you will see frightened faces; faces that betray anxieties about the next meal, the next rent, the next job, etc. You will be exposed to lives that are on the edge; ready to tip to whatever side will assure them of their next meal or desired state of comfort. You will see hopes dashed, dreams killed even before they were born. You will see generations of a family railroaded into poverty, hopelessness, illness and disease.

I wish I didn’t start to look at them, but If I didn’t start, how would I have seen that there is desperation in the land? How would I have seen that many people are barely surviving? How would I know all these?

All over the country, in the cities, and towns, and even in the villages, the story is the same. It doesn’t matter which part of the country you go; it is the same story. Nigeria has abandoned her people to the harshness of our economy. People are finding it difficult to live; to survive. Children are dropping out of school daily never to return; morality is at an all-time low; crime is at an all-time high; the people are already pushed beyond the wall, and in desperation, people are turning on themselves. It’s becoming a jungle out there in our cities; people are desperate, and desperate people do desperate things!

Unfortunately, most of us don’t see these people. They are fixtures on our highways, same as the traffic lights. They are silhouettes at our roundabouts; our bus stops and in our alleys. They are part of the façade as we drive down the highway through the slums of our cities and towns to our suburbia. We don’t care to look; we don’t care to imagine.

We employ some of them, and pay them wages that our kids will blow on a hot Sunday afternoon at ColdStones, yet we almost work them to death. Their transportation fare alone takes more than 60% of their salary, and they have to wake up at 4am to get to work, leaving at 9pm to go back home. In all these, we still don’t see them. To us, these people don’t exist outside of the starched uniform and the plastic smiles they have to put up before us.

We never tried to look at life from their perspective and wonder how they actually survive? If we fail to see them, or look closely at them, we will see nothing. We will feel nothing for them. We will assume that they are fine, but in truth, they are not. Except something holds him back, a frustrated man is a top candidate for evil. When he flips, he decides to get rich by all means or die trying. He sees nothing else but his quest for wealth and anything that stands in his ways way.

Our countrymen need help. We need to start helping more. I urge you to find the how and the who, but we must help them to stand on their feet again, we must help them go back to their life, we must help them to go back to school. We must give them hope again. We may argue it is not our responsibility, or we may argue that there are too many of them to help, but I urge you to start where you can. The first step is always to look deeply into their eyes and ask, “How are you doing really?”